Thursday, July 11, 2013

OOTD: The Birthday Girl Wears Prada

On Tuesday I had lunch with my dear friend to celebrate (again!) my birthday, as she had missed the pre-birthday dinner that I had with my other girlfriends last week and she insisted to invite me to lunch.
We went to Sfoglia which is probably my favorite Italian restaurant in the neighborhood if not in the city. It is a bit out of hand for anyone who lives below 79th St so it hasn't "destination" status but it truly is a wonderful restaurant. Not only the food is excellent but the décor is elegant without being pretentious and you really feel like you are in a villa in Tuscany.
My girlfriend always dresses up, especially when we go out to celebrate something, so I thought it was the perfect occasion to break out a sheath dress that I had since my vacation in Italy last year. This is a "runaway" Prada dress that I got for 50 Euros (no typos). In the little beach town on the Riviera where we vacationed last year (Alassio) they have this big clearance sale at the end of the summer where all the stores put out little stands in the streets and sell the odd ends of the season and season pasts. It is actually a lot of fun and I took pictures but they are prints (we had to buy a disposable camera as we forgot it at home in Milan) so I cannot post them as I don't have a scanner.
Anyway, the only problem is that you can't try on (because there is no store to speak of) or, if you are brave enough, you are allowed to try in the streets. There was this stand with very high end Italian brands (Miu Miu, Prada, Dolce and Gabbana) and the prices were crazy (all the dresses were 50 EU, skirts and pants were 30 EU and tops 20 EU). I immediately noticed this and another Prada dress (a sundress with a sailboat print) but they were both a size 38 and I couldn't even button the sundress.
I really liked this sheath but it was a smidge small around the hips and I couldn't even look at myself in a mirror so I put it back on the rack. Another woman immediately picked it up and tried it on. She was trying to make it work as well but this woman was at least two sizes bigger than me and seeing it on her (it didn't look bad at all) I regretted letting it go and though "If she can wear it, I certainly could have!" Luckily for me she couldn't zip it up, so she didn't buy it and it came home with me (I also bought a Fendi skirt that I wore a lot this year and you will see in another post).
What I like in this dress are the colors that really suit me. It is a tribal print that doesn't go out of style or if it does, it comes back. I think I lost a bit of weight since I bought it so it isn't as tight around the hips as it was when I tried it on. In fact it isn't tight at all. Granted, it isn't probably the most flattering dress ever on me but it looks good enough and you don't walk away from an original Prada dress at that price unless it is three sizes smaller than you are. I think it would look better if I removed the silk lining (so as to have a bit more room) but it feels almost like a sacrilege to remove a luxurious silk slip from a Prada dress (it is sewn into the zipper so I couldn't recycle it as slip). What do you think?
I accessorized it with my resin necklace and a resin bracelet that my girlfriend gave me last year for my birthday (it's from Brazil and I luuuuuuuurv it):




My friend not only invited me (BTW, I had the most delicious Rossini cocktail that I ever had) but she also had a gift! And the gift came in a JCrew bag! It IS actually a bag, the Bamboula for JCrew market tote for my trip to Greece, as the accompanying card said.
Now I would really like to keep it (even if I have an entire department of straw totes) because I thought it was so nice of her and in general I don't like to return gifts but after trying to carry it at home, I find it very uncomfortable, plus you can only carry it in your hand or the crotch of the elbow, since the handles are too small to be carried on the shoulder AND they didn't cover the handles with leather, so it is very scratchy on the skin. Those of you who have this, do you like it?
Too bad because I have the perfect top for it ;-). Look how nice it looks with my old Calypso crochet-trim top in the same colors (BTW, I am totally taking this top with me to Greece):



There is actually nothing that I vaguely want at JCrew right now so I might as well keep it. I am going to share my other presents in the next post, then I will be in the Hamptons again for a week and come back just in time to pack for Europe. I can't believe I have only a week left to spend in NYC this summer. Stay tuned!

18 comments:

  1. What a great buy Ema!
    I wish i would have known that they do sales like this,haha.


    I have the jcrew Bamboula tote in blue and even thou like ou said you cant put it on your shoulders,i loved wearing it in Italy.
    The bold stripes were perfect for the beach.

    Btw did you keep the roller girl shorts?
    I got a pair on popback.

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    1. Hi ina, I love the bold stripes too but it would be too small for me as a beach tote and I can't take it to Italy because I am flying and it isn't packable... But I am glad you enjoyed yours!
      I do still have the shorts but I think I am going to return them as I have too many shorts that I don't wear and I found the pair that I was looking for at Calypso. But I DO love them and they are very comfortable.

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  2. Ema - I love this and when I got to Italy someday I am going to get the dates and the name of that town again from you and get "necked" in the streets!

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    1. You bet! It is only one weekend so you better plan in advance ;-). I hope it will be the same weekend this year, I should be there.

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  3. I love the dress on you and it looks easy to wear and summery, perfect score! I also LOVE your Calypso top and it looks great with the tote, too bad about the handles. Wow, I was hoping we can get together but it will have to wait until you come back. Nice to go away for so long, you have to take lots of pictures for us :)

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    1. Too late, I guess. But when I am back we will get together, I promise!

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    1. Hi! I just wanted to reply even if you deleted the comment (I am giving you the benefit of the doubt and think you didn't want to come across as it did).
      I do re-read my posts and I just re-read this one one more time following your comment. I don't see anything particularly pretentious in this post, really, unless you find that going out for lunch with a friend is pretentious. If you think that my whole life style is pretentious, which I can understand, just do both of us the favor of stop reading this blog, there are plenty of blogs out there and clearly this one is not a match for you.

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    2. I didn't read this persons comment, but you are the sweetest person ever. I don't understand why people have to be unnecessarily mean. This is one of my favorite blogs. I think people are jealous. I know I am. I would love to live in NY with a place in the Hamptons and be going to Greece! But if it isn't me I can't think of a nicer person it could be. I'm happy for you. As we should all be happy for others good fortune.

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    3. Thank you missy, so sweet of you. What I find hurtful is that people who leave mean or harsh comments are usually people who ONLY leave those kind of comments. If it were regular commenters we, bloggers, would probably accept the criticism but I find it offensive that somebody would come here and never comment except for leaving a mean comment out of the blue. The poster above probably skipped my last post, that told a lot more about myself than this post.

      For the records, I don't have a place in the Hamptons, we rent a condo for a week or two each summer...

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  5. The bag is so cute. Market tote = short drop, but I prefer a longer option so I understand. You looked great for your celebration. I'm happy that lady couldn't zip the dress. I'll bet she's still remembering that day the good one got away. rofl

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  6. I missed the comment that was deleted but I love reading your blog, keep on keeping on, and going to the Hamptons and shopping!!

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  7. WOw that is a conundrum. It is always hard if a gift doesn't work. I don't wish to hurt someone's feelings,but I don't want to be wasteful. Can a shoemaker sew leather on the handles- or a tailor sew canvas on them? It wouldn't be hard. The dress is gorgeous.

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    1. I think in this case it would be too much hassle and it is better to return it. I am actually shocked at the price!

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  8. well, I do have a little house on the East End of Long Island, and I am absolutely delighted that you and your family enjoy the beaches and the little villages as much as we do. Despite the overdone PR, most of the area is populated by families and couples who are looking for a relaxing summer/month/week, and kind enthusiastic people are always welcome. it's also lovely in the winter in a different way, the sky and the ocean are different colors, and the beaches are empty in kind of a sad romantic way. I hope you'll find time to drive out one day and take a look then, too.

    and I looove that dress!

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    1. We love that the nature has been preserved so well in the Hamptons and that you feel like you are thousands of miles away from the city (except for when you are in the line at restaurants!).
      I actually went to Shelter island one year in November at the peak of foliage season and it was beautiful. Another time we went to Montauk at the beginning of May and it was still cold and very empty, so I know what you mean!

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  9. Maybe the one who made the comment was the one still jealous for letting that gorgeous Prada dress get away! I for one love reading about your shopping bargains and your travel adventures so keep them coming :)

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