Monday, May 24, 2010

Memorial Day (Fancy) Weekend Outfit: Choose!

Time to reveal my plans for Memorial Day weekend, otherwise it will be too late for you to help me with my outfit.

So tomorrow is my husband's 40th birthday and he wanted to celebrate in his favorite city in the word. It's not NY, it's not Paris, it's ... LA. We used to go there at least once a year when we were childless and I must admit that even if I wouldn't live there I always enjoyed spending a few days pretending that I am a movie star or a twenty-something wannabe (as everybody looks young in LA).
Now, we aren't jet-setters but we wanted to do something special so we rented a fabulous villa on the Hollywood Hills for the whole weekend and we are going to throw a party on Saturday night. It won't be a big party as obviously not everybody could afford the flight and unfortunately we couldn't rent a private jet like Tom Cruise once did and fly them all to the party. But some friends are coming form NY, my husband's best friend is flying from Paris and we have some friends living there. So let's call it a party.

The house is in Neutra-style (I don't know if I ever told you but architecture, especially modernism, is one of my big passions, but so is Brad Pitt's) and has a very nice pool area that overlooks LA and at night the view is just fantastic with all those little lights glowing in the dark (at least in the pics that the owner sent to us). So the party is going to be, if not a pool party (I don't think that anyone will make a splash unless we get really drunk), around the pool. The best think about throwing a party is that you get to decide the dress code and we went with "Hollywood Glam" with a no-black policy for the ladies.

Obviously, I started to think about my outfit a while ago, and I looked at a few dresses when I as at Bloomingdales for the F&F event. I really liked this little number by Milly (note the very glamorous flutter-sleeve) but I didn't buy it as it was expensive (almost $400) and I didn't want to spend that much on a dress that I will wear only once or twice:



I actually have a Theory dress that I have never worn and would be perfect for the occasion (it reminds me a little bit of the famous Sharon Stone dress in Basic Instinct. I will try to remember to wear my panties if I wear it) but a) it's very short; b) it's unforgiving (it's in stretch sateen and the kind of material that lets your cellulite show through and I'm not at the top of my shape right now); c) it only looks good with stilettos and the property owner asked us and our guests not to wear stilettos on the deck as they had problems in the past). Anyway, here it is (sorry for the pic, is the only one that I have as the battery of my phone died just after):



This is my first choice but I need a backup in case I don't feel like wearing it or my husband doesn't like it (I'm not going against his will this time as he is the birthday boy after all). I have three backup options and I would like you to vote your favorite.

The first is a maxi-dress that I had bought last year for a pool party that I ended up not going to. So it's new and needs to be worn. It would have been perfect if we had chosen a "pool party" dress code (we hesitated between the two). It is a very flattering dress and the fabric is actually a very nice silk jersey and not a cheap one:



The second is another maxi-dress, that I bought a few weeks ago at H&M. I think that for the price ($24.50) is a great dress and kind of appropriately glamorous but it's very long and I am not sure that I can wear it without having it hemmed. What do you think, worth it or not?




The third option is a shorter dress in a fantastic blue hue. I won't tell you where it comes from so as not influence your judgement:



I am aware that all the three backup options that I showed you are understated compared to my first choice, but I would like you to pick one anyway. It could be that in the next few days I find a fantastic deal on a fabulous dress (maybe the Milly one) as the Memorial Day Weekend sales are going to start and I'm keeping my eyes open, but let's plan for the worst (as my husband always says).

I will be a little bit busy this week as I have to prepare everything and I am alone with my daughter (by the way, she is coming, in case you were wondering, so no Mustang). I'm flying out on Friday morning, so I apologize in advance if I won't be able to comment back or blog much.

Have a nice week!

19 comments:

  1. The Milly is my favorite, but as a second choice I like the h&m maxi. Have fun! Sounds like an unforgettable weekend!

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  2. I think the H&M maxi is both affordable and kind of awesome. Don't know if there's time for this or even if you would want to, but I was thinking how grea thte H&M number would look if it was hemmed to mid-thigh or something.

    Regardless, you'll look fabulous and have a wonderful weekend!

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  3. I love the H&M maxi as well, I would definitely keep it, and it is worth the hemming expense at that price. I also love the Theory dress, very L.A.!

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  4. I choose the Milly dress, that sleeve makes it perfect! However if I can't have that one I choose the first maxi dress because it looks the most California of all of them, the most modern, 1960s, Warhol-esque. And since as hostess and requesting no black, you should make a statement with color!

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  5. Umm, I am going to comment again on which dress, but can I just tell you how insanely jealous that you get to stay at a Neutra-style house??? Salivate, salivate...

    I vaguely remember you commenting on loving the wall of windows in my playroom...I get it now! You and I have more than our love of J. Crew in common!

    You MUST post photos!!!

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  6. H&M Animal Print Maxi, 100%. You would fit the time period of the house beautifully in it. I can see you now, martini in hand, (fake) cigarrette in the other, etc., etc. :)

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  7. I like the Milly dress, but i may be biased since i love Milly.

    Have a great time in LA!

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  8. LOVE the H&M maxi dress, it's GORGEOUS! And I think it would look amazing for an LA pool party.

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  9. Love L.A.! We live only 2hrs from there so sometimes hubby and I plan special date days in the city, its fab! If you get a chance you should visit the Getty Center, beautiful museum and kid friendly.

    The Theory one is my favorite (looks very L.A. appropriate)

    My second choice is the H&M - Fab!

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  10. H&M maxi dress, belted. It looks like a total LA hostess dress to me!

    Please make sure to take and post some pics. Sounds like a wonderful party is planned!

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  11. I like the Theory dress but love the H & M on you! So (Old Hollywood) Glam.

    I like the idea of hemming it short after you wear it once long, I think you would get lots of use out of it this way dressing it up or down.

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  12. First of all, I am totally cracking up at the no black for the ladies dress code. I think most females I know would be stumped, except for my mom!!

    I love the short blue dress - gorgeous color. But I vote for #2 - the H+M maxi dress. It's so Rachel Zoe/LA fab. And, being from H+M, if you all do end up jumping/falling in the pool after a few too many drinks - because we know it does happen - you won't mind getting an H+M dress soaked. :)

    Have a fantastic time!!

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  13. the milly dress is beautiful,but H&M would be my second choice too.
    i am sure you will look stunning in whatever you wear.
    enjoy LA!

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  14. I think I might love your husband! LA is my favourite city and I'm obsessed with Neutra houses! On that note, you have to wear number one, you'll look like the perfect glamourous hostess from that era, ooh I am soo envious.

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  15. Ema - My marriage crises has been averted, hubby's lying in bed just now and I just screamed about Ema and her husband's plans for his 40th- he had that who/do I know them moment? Eh no neither do i really.. but he says we're going to the Beverly Hills Hotel for his 40th in 2 years time. I'll try to be less green when I see your pics!

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  16. Wow! Just Wow! The Milly was my first choice, but after scrolling up and down repeatedly, the H & M would be my choice. Flowy, sexy, mature (not working too hard, confident in yourself), overall stunning.

    I agree with Dina. I can see you floating/gliding with your drink in one hand and a (fake) cigarette in the other.

    Have you hired a professional photographer?

    Have BIG FUN!

    And Happy Birthday to your DH!

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  17. LOL Tabitha's marriage crisis after reading this post!
    Glad it has been averted.

    I am also voting for the H&M. My second choice after that would be the short blue dress from the Mystery Retailer.
    This sounds like a very glamorous party. Though I live in an old Edwardian-style house, I also love Modern. I have a dream of owning a vacation house in NY state that would be completely modern.
    I am also hoping for pictures!
    Happy 40th Birthday to your husband, it seems we were born near the same time: I turn 40 on June 10th!

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  18. I LOVE the Milly but it is pricey. If you know you would wear it to dinner and some other fun events etc. then go for it. Otherwise, I really like the casual first maxi dress, myself.

    The ivory dress is very beautiful but definitely puts out an entirely different vibe.

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  19. Honestly I'm in the minority but I'm not loving the Milly...at that price point I think you can do better. I really love the H&M Maxi...perfect for the party. 2nd place would be the Theory...add some lucite heels, a sleek pony and lots of mascara and I think it could be very LA retro/modern fabulous.

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