Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Date night (crazy) outfit

I had a movie-and-dinner date night this Saturday with hubby (duh! Who else?) and I wore something that you don't see me wearing very often. I was inspired by ajc's post and I was feeling like wearing something that would surprise my husband. See, I never know what my husband is going to like when we go out (he doesn't like frills or too romantic dresses but he doesn't like when I wear jeans on a date or when I try my version of sexy), so I always end up wearing something quite ordinary that doesn't get too much attention from him because when I look for compliments in general I am not going to get any (quite the opposite in fact). In any case, before you see what I wore I need to provide you with some context, otherwise you are going to think that I am going through a middle age crisis and that this dress is a direct consequence of that. I had bought this dress in sight of a gateway in the city that we had planned for Memorial Day and that we decided to cancel at the last minute. We had booked a room at the Standard hotel and the plan was to party (they have a famous party on Sunday afternoons) and then go to our room instead of taking a cab home. I found the idea quite sexy so I was full of anticipation when a few days before I saw this dress at H&M. As you know I think that H&M is quite a good source of disposable fashion that sometimes looks great but I wouldn't go as far as to say that their stuff is amazing. The fabrics are often subpair and the stritching cheap, in particular as far as their "fancy" dresses go. I wouldn't buy a coat at H&M but if you want to experiment with trends that only last a season it is the place to go. Anyhow, this dress is not the typical H&M dress, the fabric is a very substantial neoprene-like material with raw edges that don't frey and it is VERY well made. It has a futuristic feel to it, a little bit a la Balanciaga and the print is simply stunning. I asked if it was a special collection or something but the SA didn't know and there is no special tag even if I only saw it the flagship on 5th Avenue (my local store never had it). I was transfixed and I bought it even if at $69 it was definitively expensive for H&M (it helped that I had a $45 store credit). I took these pics right after buying it nd the colors are much brighter IRL, as you will see further down, but I wanted to show you these pics because the print is more visible than in the pics that my husband took Saturday night (I don't remember if this is the 2 or the 4 as I went back and forth with the size but in the end I decided to keep the 4 because I could barely breath in the 2):



After the night out that didn't happen this dress was hanging in my closet unworn, as it had lost its reason to be there and Saturday night I pulled it out more to test it than to actually wear it. I was thinking that I should return it but it broke my heart to return such a unique dress so I decided that I would show it to my husband (which I almost never do) and see what his reaction would be. At first he looked at it and then at me and uttered his favorite words "C'est horrible" but I was undeterred and when I put it on and asked him if I could wear it to the movies that night and he said "Si ca peut te faire plaisir ..." ("If that could make you happy") I knew that he actually liked the dress (otherwise he would have said "You are not going out with me in that dress".)
So, here I am in my crazy dress Saturday night. We went to see a French movie at the Paris theater, which is right next door to Bergdorf. Note that I had highlights that afternoon, after almost six months since the last time (my colorist had a baby this spring and I had to wait for her to be back to work):


This is the movie theater. I love that Paris sign:


I had tried to take a pic of myself while I was waiting for the elevator (and yes, those are parrots on my boobs!):


After the movie (that we both really enjoyed even if I had very low expectations) we had a pizza at a casual place because I couldn't walk too far in my platforms (the craziest shoes that I could find to pair with my crazy dress. Believe it or not I don't have a single pair of orange shoes) but I didn't feel like I was overdressed. I just felt in a good and cheerful mood (husband noticed). I would like to say that it is the power of movies, but it was probably the power of clothes.
While we are on the H&M topic, I went in this weekend (it was craaaaazy) and I couldn't resist this whole oufit:


I had already tried the skirt a while ago but at that time I didn't feel like spending $29 on a mini. Lucky me this one went on sale and for $15 I think it is a great summer mini. This is a size 6 and it "just" fit, I almost bougth the 8 to be more comfortable but then I decided to go with the 6 because it was most flattering and if I can only wear it this summer what the heck. I hesitated on the top because it is cut quite big as you can see (I am wearing a XS) so I put it on hold but then went back to get it because I like this outfit too much (I like the top per se but this is a re-edition of a top that came out in the Fall in silver and I had missed on and I would probably get more wear out of the silver one). What do you think? Too mermaid?

I am packing today. For the first time ever we are not going to spend 4th of July in the city but in the Hamptons. Friday is my birthday and I hope that I will have the time to write another post with my birthday present picks before then. Otherwise I will talk to you next week!

What do you think of my crazy dress? Are you finding good stuff at H&M this season?

8 comments:

  1. Ema - I love the dress. Tell your husband il est tres gentil et aussi intelligente - tu es magnifigue dans cette robe!

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  2. I love the dress on you too,it looks so summery and special!

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  3. Ema, I love the dress on you! In the pictures your husband took you look so happy and pretty it made me smile blissfully. You are great that your husband's criticism does not get you. I am think I am so often overly sensistive, even when I know my dh means well. I need to learn from you. Love your hair too!

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  4. I also need to learn from you, you have the right attitude about your husband's opinions!
    I also think you look so happy and beautiful, I love the dress.
    I also love the mini outfit, I think it is so fun, you wear it well!

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  5. The dress is fabulous on you and you look super happy in these photos! I have not been finding anything at H & M this season - I have been spending my entire budget at J. Crew! Happy Birthday and hope you have a wonderful vacation.

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  6. I love the crazy dress and love how you look in it! I'm glad you gave it a second chance.

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  7. Not crazy, very darling, very feminine.I loved it.

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  8. C'etait super ce film la! Et cette robe te va tres bien. Bon week-end!

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